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2007/3/9 for the 20s~Being Twenty-something - they call it the 'Quarter-life Crisis. It is when you stop going along with the crowd and start realising that there are many things about yourself that you didn't know and may not like.
You start feeling insecure and wonder where you will be in a year or two, but then get scared because you barely know where you are now. You start realising that people are selfish and that, maybe, those friends that you thought you were so close to aren't exactly the greatest people you have ever met, and the people you have lost touch with are some of the most important ones. What you don't recognise is that they are realising that too, and aren't really cold, catty, mean or insincere,but that they are as confused as you. You look at your job ... and it is not even close to what you thought you would be doing, or maybe you are looking for a job and realising that you are going to have to start at the bottom and that scares you. Your opinions have gotten stronger. You see what others are doing and find yourself judging more than usual because suddenly you realise that you have certain boundaries in your life and are constantly adding things to your list of what is acceptable and what isn't. One minute, you are insecure and then the next, secure. You laugh and cry with the greatest force of your life. You feel alone and scared and confused. Suddenly, change is the enemy and you try and cling on to the past with dear life, but soon realise that the past is drifting further and further away, and there is nothing to do but stay where you are or move forward. You get your heart broken and wonder how someone you loved could do such damage to you. Or you lie in bed and wonder why you can't meet anyone decent enough that you want to get to know better. Or maybe you love someone but love someone else too and cannot figure out why you are doing this because you know that you aren't a bad person. One night stands and random hook ups start to look cheap. Getting wasted and acting like an idiot don't seem as fun. You go through the same emotions and questions over and over, and talk with your friends about the same topics because you cannot seem to make a decision. You worry about loans, money, the future and making a life for yourself... and while winning the race would be great, right now you'd just like to be a contender! What you may not realise is that everyone reading this relates to it. We are in our best of times and our worst of times, trying as hard as we can to figure this whole thing out. Pass this to your twenty-something friends... maybe it will help someone feel like they aren't alone in their state of confusion... "Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away."
It's really amazing when two strangers become the best of friends, but It is really sad when the best of friends become two strangers. 2006/12/5 Bill Gates vs GMFor all of us who feel only the deepest love and affection for the way computers have enhanced our lives, read on.
At a recent computer expo (COMDEX), Bill Gates reportedly compared the computer industry with the auto industry and stated, "If GM had kept up with technology like the computer industry has, we would all be driving $25.00 cars that got 1,000 miles to the gallon.
In response to Bill's comments, General Motors issued a press release stating: If GM had developed technology like Microsoft, we would all be driving cars with the following characteristics :
1. For no reason whatsoever, your car would crash twice a day.
2. Every time they repainted the lines in the road, you would have to buy a new car. 3. Occasionally your car would die on the freeway for no reason. You would have to pull to the side of the road, close all of the windows, shut off the car, restart it, and reopen the windows before you could continue. For some reason you would simply accept this.
4. Occasionally, executing a maneuver such as a left turn would cause your car to shut down and refuse to restart, in which case you would have to reinstall the engine.
5. Macintosh would make a car that was powered by the sun, was reliable, five times as fast and twice as easy to drive -- but would run on only five percent of the roads.
6. The oil, water temperature, and alternator warning lights would all be replaced by a single "This Car Has Performed AnIllegal Operation" warning light. 7. The airbag system would ask "Are you sure?" before deploying. 8. Occasionally, for no reason whatsoever, your car would lock you out and refuse to let you in until you simultaneously lifted the door handle, turned the key and grabbed hold of the radio antenna. 9. Every time a new car was introduced car buyers would have to learn how to drive all over again because none of the controls would operate in the same manner as the old car. 10. You'd have to press the "Start" button to turn the engine off. 2005/7/29 ❤❤ 爱疯了 ❤❤
可以随时牵手，但不要随时分手 谨此献给所以正在恋爱中 或者正想恋爱的同龄人~~
你发觉到了吗？
她适合你，那你又适合她吗? 你开始磨了吗？
在某个聚餐的场合， "十年前，当我老婆还是我的女朋友的时候， 我连帮她脱衣服都没兴趣了，还剥虾壳咧!"
听到了吗？明白了吗？ 难怪越来越多人只想要谈一辈子的恋爱，
有一对情侣，相约下班後去用餐、逛街， 同样的在同一个地点 另一对情侣也面临同样的处境； 并且脱去外套盖在女孩身上，
你体会到了吗？ 其实爱、恨往往只是在我们的一念之间！
我们总说 「我要找一个你很爱很爱的人，你才会谈恋爱。」
没错，我们总是以为 我们会找到一个自己很爱很爱的人。 当我们猛然回首,我们才会发觉自己曾经多么天真。 你怎么知道自己会不会很爱很爱那个人呢？ 是要在一起经历了许多事情之後才会发现的。 心目中百分之百的伴侣， 『在你身边会不会早已经有人默默对你付出很久了 只是你没发觉而已呢？』 他或许已经等你很久喽！
当你爱一个人的时候，爱到八分绝对刚刚好。 剩下两三分用来爱自己。 很可能会给对方沉重的压力 让彼此喘不过气来 完全丧失了爱情的乐趣。 所以请记住
如果你也正在为爱迷惘 或许下面这段话可以给你一些启示： 就算你不开心，也不要皱着眉头。 因为…… 你永远也不知道谁会爱上你的笑容。 我们的爱情常常因为偷懒 而慢慢变得看起来减少下去 其实如果平淡的日子中 突然有一天受到对方给你的玫瑰花 或者是祝福 告诉你今天是怎样的值得纪念的日子 那柔情霎那间的不是也充满了心房吗 我们都有感情的 只是懒得去维护那柔情的蔓延了。 总感觉茫茫人海中 两个人能够相知到相爱是多么的不容易 一切都要珍惜，不能够轻易的就放弃！ 感情是需要不断的维护，才会长久！
今生的轮回里，为的只是那 “生死挈阔，与子相悦；执子之手" 2005/6/8 ─═☆ THE BUFFALO THEORY ☆═─If this theory stands then ----> we should drink more than we usually do and perform better in our finals lol~~ cheers~~ 2005/5/25 ㊣㊣看看你的智商有没有一百八㊣㊣据说能看到九张脸的智商有一百八哦~~
2005/5/12 树~叶子~风~ （转载）这是很早之前一个朋友forward给我的一个故事 前几天在删email的时候偶然又看到了这个标题~~ 所以又从新看了一边 看完后还是觉得写得很棒！ 超喜欢的~~ 所以今天就来转载一下好了
有可能有些人已经看过了 不过再看一边也许会有不一样的感觉偶！！！
~~樹~~ 不追她的原因，也許是潛意識覺得平凡如她配不上我；也許是因為怕在一起後，一切好感都會消失；也許是怕外人的指指點點傷害了她；也許是覺得，她會是我的，不急著為了她而放棄一切。最後這個原因，讓她陪了我三年，讓她看著我和別的女孩子廝混了三年，讓她心痛了三年。 她很想當一個好演員，但我卻像一個嚴苛的導演。我和第二個女朋友在廁所接吻，被她撞見，她尷尬的笑笑說：「Go on！」然後跑掉，第二天，她眼睛腫得像核桃一樣，我故意不去猜想是誰讓她哭成這樣，嘲笑了她一天，她在所有人都回家後，在教室哭了起來，她不知道練球回來拿東西的我，看了她一個多小時。 我的第四個女朋友，一直很不喜歡她，有次她們兩個吵了起來，我知道依她的個性不會去惹事，但我還是護著女朋友，她被我吼了一下後，愣住，眼淚滑了下來，我無視她的眼淚，陪女友走出教室，第二天，她依舊嘻嘻哈哈的和我開玩笑，我知道她很難過，但她不會知道我的心不比她好受。 當我和第五個女朋友分手時，我約她出去玩，玩了一天，我對她說：「我有事要對妳說。」她說：「真巧，我也有事要對你說。」「我和她分手了。」「我和他在一起了。」我知道「他」是誰，他追她也有一陣子了，是個蠻可愛的男孩子，活潑有趣，充滿了熱情，追她追得滿城風雨。我不能表現自己的心痛，只能笑笑地恭喜她，但當我回到家，心中的痛楚強烈得令我無法承受，像有個千斤重的石頭壓在我胸口，我無法呼吸，想大叫卻叫不出來，眼淚竟然滑了下來，我掩面大哭，多少次，我也看著她為了那個不願承認的人掩面大哭。畢業典禮時，我在手機上發現了一封簡訊，這是十天前，我掩面大哭時傳來的，只是我一直沒有去開過機。
~~葉子~~
儘管如此，我還是想在他身邊，關心他，陪他，愛他，也許算是一種等待的行為，等待他回來愛我，就像每天晚上等他的電話，等他的簡訊，我知道，就算他再忙，也會撥出一些時間給我。這樣的等待，陪了我三年，等待是難熬的，是令人想放棄的，但等到的那一剎那，讓人第二天會繼續等下去。這樣的煎熬，這樣的痛苦，這樣的幸福，這樣的矛盾，陪了我三年。 直到三年級下學期，高二一個學弟喜歡上我，每天的熱情追求，令我從一開始的拒絕，漸漸願意挪出我心房的一些位置給他。他像一陣溫柔而持久的風，撩撥我這片搖搖欲墜的葉子，到最後，我發現我已經不想只留一點點的位置給這陣風，我知道這陣風，會帶我這片傷痕累累的葉子，到更幸福的地方。 於是我離開了樹，樹只是笑笑，沒有挽留。
~~風~~ 第一次看見她，是高二我轉來一個月後的事，個子小小的她坐在球場旁，一雙眼凝視著同和我在球場的學長，每天的社團時間，她總會坐在那裡，一個人，和朋友，她的眼光依舊凝視著他，當他和女孩子打打鬧鬧，她的眼中有淚，當他看向她，她的眼中有笑。看她成了我的習慣，就像她愛看他。 有一天她沒來，我心中沒來由的焦慮與不安，我無法解釋那種感覺，除了不安，還是不安，而且那學長竟然也不在。我衝去他們教室，躲在外面，看著學長罵她，她的眼淚，他的離去。 第二天，她依舊坐在場邊，看著他，我走過去，對她笑一笑，拿了張紙條給她，她先是驚訝的看著我，然後笑笑地收下。
「不是葉子的心太沉重，是葉子根本就不想離開樹。」
一直到不知道第幾次的告白，出了口，雖然知道她一定會又說到別的事，但還是有一絲絲希望她的答應，沒想到她都不說話，「妳在幹嘛？怎麼不說話？」我對著話筒說。「我在點頭。」「啊？」我不敢相信自己的耳朵。
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